(This will take only about 2 minutes to read…are you willing to invest 2 minutes to learn How to Succeed in Love + Life NOW?)
You’ve heard the old saying that orange is the new black.
But for this New Year, NOW IS THE NEW…
You decide!
What’s it going to be?
Every new year comes and goes with resolutions for something better. Something new. MORE.
However, only about 8% of those who set New Year’s goals, or declare resolutions, actually see them become a reality. Why is that?
Because simply saying, “I’m going to… I will…I am…” doesn’t create results.
Unless YOU act on what you say. And the only way that’s going to happen is IF you believe what you say. (And you mean it.)
Simply stated, you inject meaning into your words with MASSIVE ACTION that’s grounded in beliefs that support your desires.
If you don’t believe it, your results (or lack thereof) won’t be believable either. Instead of getting UNBELIEVABLE results, you’ll be left with feeling unsuccessful, disappointed and discouraged. It’ll be another year of “trying”, while bearing very little, if any, fruit.
There IS a way to change this, however, and I’m going to show you right now.
N.O.W. is your KEY to taking action today that gives you the success you hope for (positively expect, believe, desire and trust).
- Need versus Desire. Focus on your desires first. Most people think about their needs before they act on their desires. Nothing will keep you stuck longer than being need-orientated. No one likes to be around a “needy” person, especially when that “needy” one is YOU!
The more you focus on your needs, the needier you’ll become.
Become desire-focused, and take creative action based on your desires.
This is the first step that you MUST (versus NEED) do to succeed now. For example, if you desire to stop certain “bad habits” this year, STOP TODAY. And start a new pattern of being (believing) NOW.
How you do today is how you’ll do your New Year!
2. OWN IT! Fully open up to and engage in the moment that you’re in.
FEEL IT NOW.
DO IT NOW.
OWN IT NOW.
3. Why Not? Ask yourself this question. More often than not your reason for NOT doing something seems bigger (or more believable) to you than WHY you think you’re doing it.
Many of my coaching clients have a big WHY for doing what they do, but unfortunately when they first come to me, their WHY NOT TO is much bigger. The bottom line is it’s all about BELIEF!
Your belief.
If you believe in your reason(s) NOT to do something more than you believe in your reason(s) to do it, YOU WON’T. Period. End of story.
You can only go as far or as high as your belief(s) take you.
I believe you’re reading this today because you desire something MORE this year. Something different. Something compelling…inspiring. A reason to get up and go. To take massive action based on beliefs you CHOOSE versus beliefs that you’re most likely not even consciously aware of. To choose beliefs that support your desires and are worthy of your trust.
There’s HOPE.
The solution you’ve been seeking is…HOPE.
Hope is a positive expectancy based on three profound catalysts: BELIEF, DESIRE, TRUST.
If all three are in alignment (agreement), and your HOPES ARE UP, the success of your LOVE + LIFE will go UP.
Please ask yourself these questions:
- What do I desire?
- Does it inspire and spark JOY within me when I think about it? DOES IT GIVE ME ENERGY?
(If not, then it’s time to ask yourself why you desire it. Chances are it’s not an authentic, pure desire, but instead, it’s one that you’ve chosen to believe based on a feeling of need, fear, or obligation.)
IT’S TIME TO GET HONEST WITH YOURSELF AND TELL THE TRUTH, MY DEAR.
- What do I believe about this desire becoming my reality? Do I believe it’s possible? Am I inspired?
- Or am I skeptical, scared? Do I believe it’s TOO HARD?
(If so, then it’s time to expose the truth about what you really believe. Do you believe you’re worthy to live the love + life you desire? Happy? Healthy? Inspired? Successful? Creative? In love with your life?)
ARE YOU WILLING TO TRY ON A NEW BELIEF TODAY THAT SERVES YOU, YOUR DESIRES, AND THE GREATER GOOD?
ARE YOU WILLING TO LOVE YOUR LIFE WELL?
- Am I willing to GET MY HOPES UP?
- Am I willing to trust in God (the One who planted this desire in your heart so you’d be able to fulfill your God-given purpose while on earth), myself, and the process of acting in the NOW to create the NEW that I desire?
- AM I WILLING TO BELIEVE THE TRUTH, TELL THE TRUTH, AND ACT IN A TRUSTWORTHY MANNER TO LIVE THE LIFE I DESIRE?
After coaching countless numbers of people over the years (including myself), I’ve found that if we want deeper answers, we must be willing to ask deeper questions. AND then be willing to be the answers to our questions.
You can do it. I trust you. Do YOU trust YOU?
To learn more about how TRUST WORTHY you really are, take this simple Trust Worthy Test.
I would love to hear from you! Did you find this teaching helpful? If so, please let me know and pass it on to those you love.
Together we can make a difference NOW. Thank you!!
REMEMBER: Be the solution you desire and love!!
Happy NOW Year!!
xo Dr. Shannon